Self Help Guide How to Work Towards A Happier Life
by Helene Malmsio
This site is created as a self help guide for your happiness, health and wealth. So it’s stating the obvious that learning how to be happy is fundamental to your wellbeing!
Most goals in life that we strive for actually boil down to being happy, or being happier than we already are.
Why do you want that new car? Not for better transportation… its because of how you will feel when you get it and drive it… Happy!
Why do you want that new outfit? Not because you need more clothes I bet… its because how you will feel in your new ‘glad rags’… Happy!
All your goals in life come back to how something will make you feel. So learning some fundamental self help techniques to better manage your emotions and sustain your daily motivation and happiness is pretty important to everyone.
We know that life is not always a walk in the park, so to speak. Problems come in two forms: ones that are easy to solve and ones that look nearly impossible to overcome. So maintaining a positive attitude and your daily motivation can be a real challenge at times.
It’s simple to say that life is sweet when we are able to overcome a difficult situation. When things start to go against us, we forget about our basic beliefs and let situations like these affect our overall outlook.
The secret to a happy life is in being optimistic; to always see the glass as half-full. The tricky part comes when we encounter roadblocks along the way. It takes a lot of practice to become a positive person, but once we do become that kind of person, we will live happier lives. Remember, happiness is not a state of mind that can be achieved with just a snap of our fingers. Happiness is a choice we make and it is the attitude we need to inculcate in ourselves every single day.
If you need to take some time off to become the kind of person that oozes out confidence and that brings warmth to everyone, then by all means, do so. Take a step back and reevaluate your life if you must. If the work you do makes you an angry person, then maybe it’s high time that you rethink your career path.
Strive for happiness with the following steps listed below:
1. Write down the things that make you happy
– make an inventory of all your dreams, ask yourself how you can achieve them, and start working on them now. The tendency to procrastinate is what gets you into trouble. The longer you sulk, then the bigger the problems become.
2. Have a healthy outlet for your anger
– you need to let your frustrations out. Talk to someone if you must or go to the gym to pump out those happy hormones. Studies show that people who exercise are more readily able to find solutions to their problems.
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3. Have a support system
– with great friends and a caring family, the burden doesn’t have to entirely rest on your shoulders.
Join a group of people that are already living the life you strive for. You need to mix with the people who are already there, or who are at least striving vigorously to get there. The daily motivation that you achieve from being around like-minded people will give you a huge emotional boost.
4. Be thankful for what you have
– the saying, “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade,” is sheer genius. Life may not be all that you wanted it to be, but you also need to know that you are blessed with other things as well. Face the problem head on and see the good that comes out of it. Start a daily Gratitude Journal to make you aware of how much abundance you already have in your life. This self help technique will help to attract more abundance in your life.
– believing in a higher power has gotten many people out of even the toughest of situations. The idea that there is someone out there looking over everyone is sometimes enough for people to continue on and pursue their goals. Find what you need to meet your own Spirit, Mind & Body Balance for your own well-being.
Being too hard on yourself can sometimes hinder you from being victorious. What stops you from pursuing your path? If it’s because you just don’t believe in yourself that much, then you need to know that mistakes can only slow you down.
You still can move on after you slip-up because at least then you’ll know what you shouldn’t do. It’s not how many times you fall that counts, but the number of times you got up despite the hard fall.
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