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Self Help for how to Win People Over Now And Forever

by Helene Malmsio

Being likeable, or attractive, even charismatic is a desirable quality everyone wants to have. Well if you are not born with the ability to win people over to your view these self help tips will educate you on some of the strategies you can apply to yourself to learn this skill.

In our eagerness to win people over, we sometimes have this mistaken notion that we must put all our efforts into doing anything to win their friendship. Truth is, some people just along while others just don’t. It’s part of life’s facts. People were built differently, which is why we develop certain kinds of friendships with some. Friends are people who share the same views in life, and birds of the same feather do tend to flock together.

We need to know that there are some things in life we cannot change. Instead, you simply have to stop focusing on the negative and learn to harness all our energy knowing the positive. Joel Osteen, the world’s leading inspirational speaker, urges all of us to believe in ourselves and to know our worth. People oozing with confidence become the more popular ones simply because they inspire the others around them to be the same upbeat individual.

When we become too much of a pessimist, we can’t blame the others who try to avoid us at all cost. In fact, we might be guilty of doing the same when we encounter people we just don’t like. No one likes to surround themselves with gloom, unless your purpose in life is to bring others down. But then again, who wants to be with this sort of person?

The secret to winning people over is to exude a positive aura. When we become happy with whom we are, we’ll soon see people flocking in our corner of the room. It’s all a matter of communicating our inner glow and of believing in our ability to make others feel good.

Pressure plays a big part in making ourselves seem more attractive to people. When we force ourselves to become someone else, we tend to radiate insincerity. Our physical outlook is inconsequential here. In the end, it’s when we are truly beautiful from within and believe that we are will people start to perceive what we see in ourselves.

Developing great people skills is simply a matter of outlook. We need to work on the skills that are already innate in us and find ways to enhance these skills. Our personality traits are neither good nor bad. When it comes to who we are, we shouldn’t see things in black and white. We are born with these traits, and it’s just difficult to let go of some of these because they have become habits.

What matters most in how we deal with every situation and our ability to become flexible. There’s a fine line between flexibility and change, but what sets these two apart is the willingness to adjust to another person but at the same time, not forget who we truly are. Now that’s flexibility!

When the Cheshire cat gave the rabbit rose-colored glasses in one scene from Alice in Wonderland, he simply wanted the rabbit to see the world in an affirmative light. Seeing the world through the eyes of an idealist isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

After all, it is in being positive can we truly know what our strengths are and how we can make ourselves better. It is how every person should look at life, and this is what creates stronger ties between human beings.

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