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s Power Tips Newsletter March 15, 2011 |
| Dear I hope you enjoy our issue this month! Thank you for subscribing to our self help newsletter Site Upgrade - Update:As you would have noticed, the site has now changed over to a 3 column format. There are a couple of minor changes still to be made, however I would like to thank you for your patience while the site has been in transition. I almost forgot. If you are on Twitter, you can follow me by clicking on the Tweet on the right side of the page. My Twitter will automatically update with every new article I add to the site so its a great way to stay in touch. One Minute Tip:The Art of Gift Giving Everyone loves to be given a gift, especially as a surprise or “just because.” Just remember while giving gifts is a beautiful thing to do for the person you love, there are five key essentials for making your mate know that you are giving just because you love them. First, put some thought into the gift. Do not just pick up something at the last minute so you are not empty handed. Second, make the effort. Even if you have a busy schedule, be sure to schedule time to shop. Third, give with the right attitude. You give because you appreciate and love, not because you want something back. Fourth, plan what you are going to give. Find something that is important for your mate and not necessarily to you. Finally, add the element of surprise into the gift giving. Using this equation is sure to impress your mate and leave a lasting impression. GOALS:We generally speak about setting goals at the beginning of the year. You know, along with all those other promises you make yourself. Well, we are now three months into 2011 and I want you to revisit those goals that you wrote down. Are you on track? Are you struggling? If you havent got around to making any goals, dont worry, its never too late.
I would like you to visit this page “Life Goals and Values” Power Quotes:
Happiness:
Tips for your Happiness:We all want to be Happy, dont we? Is it a state of mind?
Trust in the power of your mind (more specifically, your
subconscious mind). Trust that it will deliver the right words at
the right time. Reinforce in your being the belief that your mind will deliver the right
words at the right time. Meaning, if you are speaking without the aid
of a written script (where something is read verbatim or word-for-word), like some do (others, like myself, prefer to just write down key words in logical progression to serve as reminders), avoid worrying about what you’re going to say next. If you know your topic really well, your subconscious mind will produce the right words at
the right time (especially if you went over the content of your speech
many times prior to your presentation)…if you will only allow it…if
you will only trust it. But you must be in the right state for this to
work effectively. You must be in a relaxed, confident, and “trusting” state. A state
where you “just know” that the words will come. (Of course, it helps
greatly if you are speaking about a topic you are passionate about.)
You must trust in your mind’s ability to deliver. The more you do this,
the more your mind will automatically deliver when you need it to. For some reason, the subconscious mind likes to be trusted. The more you
trust it, the more it wants to be worthy of that trust. In other words, it
will find ways to justify that you are right in trusting it. And if you
don’t trust it, it will also find ways to justify that you are right in not
trusting it. Remember this: The more you trust your mind, the more it will deliver. And the more your mind delivers, the more confident you will become in speaking situations. If you would like some tips on improving your Public Speaking read this article “Public Speaking Techniques” Do you want to be happy all the time? Have a look at this article
“How To Be 100% Happy” For more great articles and quotes visit “Happiness” You Can Download my Stress Relief Guide here: “How to Break Free From A Stressful Life”
Open Your Eyes Do not drive yourself crazy with this, but take notice of how your relationship is going. Open your eyes and take stock of what is and is not working in your relationship. Are there definite things missing or definite problem areas that need to be worked on? Think about it. If you invest in the stock market, you pay attention to what is going on so you can make changes if needed. Your relationship is far more than the stock market but requires some of the same strategies For more information on maintaining a healthy relationship read this article “Better Relationships”
Tips for your Health:
Can Muscles Help You Live Longer?
(1) Eat a high-fiber diet
Be Careful with the Sun If you have any questions regarding any of these topics, please let me know. Tips for your Prosperity:Basic Tips To Manage Money So you already earned your money. The next question
presented to you is what you are going to do with it.
Even when one has the list of payables and obligations
to liquidate the monthly charges, a means of properly
handling the money is required to be able to maintain
a stable and consistent budgeting. Here are some basic
tips to manage money. Know When To Stop Probably the hardest thing to do is to stop when it is
needed, especially in terms of having more than what
could be paid off. We should be able to know what
things are plausible and valid to be supported with
our own means of productivity. When we get more than
what we could support, chances are that we end up
giving them up, or worse, wrongly choosing what things
to retain and what things to let go. The idea of knowing the needs and wants also fit in
this description as we should be able to determine
first what things we need than want. This prevents us
from being biased in our judgment in acquiring. More
often than not, the things that we want are more
appealing and are a greater risk of snagging us in a
trap of financial burden and chaos in the long run. Taking time to stop and think first and then
evaluating what to prioritize first is essential to a
progressive and stable money management. Impulsiveness Means Disaster One of the basic tips to manage money is to stop one’s
self from being impulsive. Even if we have already
determined what to prioritize, we still have to
further evaluate for alternatives and not actually
spend on the first offer that comes our way. When we
are impulsive, there is a very high chance that we
risk our money into spending for something that we
could have gotten away with at much of a lesser price. Risk Is Healthier Than Full Security Risking the resources we have for a productive cause
and viable profit earner is a healthy practice to take
by an individual. Though this may mean a loss of
capital in the form of personal money, not investing
and instead just putting it in your personal safety
vault or the bank will stagnate your extra resources. Nevertheless, careful planning and feasibility study
of a business venture is needed to determine the most
efficient way to establish and commence a risky
business deal into a promising profit earner. Planning Ahead Is Essential Even if we still have a lot of flexible time to just
sit around and enjoy each day as it passes by,
planning ahead of schedule in terms of a few months to
several years is important in projecting one’s self
when the future comes. It does not have to be followed as rigidly as it
should be, but just enough to become a basis of many
activities and choices by the individual. Knowing
where to go and what to do lessens the chances of
getting stuck up in a crossroad of future choices.
Furthermore, this lessens the worries and anxieties
that a person might be thinking as important dates
draw near. In addition to that, these pre-set
guidelines would serve as a means to calibrate the
performance of the self with the intended output,
therefore allowing him to properly reset or
recalibrate the means of work and production in order
for him to further increase the expected outcome
reasonably. These basic tips to manage money are just a few of the
many means to effectively have more resources than
just getting break evened with your salaries and
allowances.
Supervisor's corner: Psychologists at Case Western Reserve University say interpersonal rejection can dramatically reduce the capacity for intelligent thought. It is so apparent to researchers that they wonder if reasoning skills evolved to help us navigate the complexities of social life rather than help us solve technical problems. After taking a personality test in one study, one group of subjects was told they would die alone. The other group was told to expect lasting friendships. Subjects who thought they would have a solitary life were significantly impaired in performing complex reasoning tasks. They were also slower and less accurate in their responses to a timed IQ test. The doctors' report, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, said the effect was similar to the cognitive impairment caused by head injuries. In a related study, rejected people took greater risks and made more unhealthy choices rather than taking better care of themselves. Study leaders conclude that excluded individuals are so busy trying to suppress emotional distress that they are unable to engage in controlled thinking. If you can arrange to include a socially rejected employee in more socialized activities, you could be rewarded with one who thinks better and works better.
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Editor’s notes:
I was riding to work yesterday when I observed a female driver
cut right in front of a pickup truck causing him to have to drive
on to the shoulder to avoid hitting her. This evidently angered
the driver enough that he hung his arm out his window and flipped
the woman off. I ALWAYS smile nicely and wave in a sheepish manner whenever a
female does anything to me in traffic and here's why: I drive 48 miles each way every day to work, that's 96 miles each
day. Of these, 16 miles each way is bumper-to-bumper. Most of the
bumper-to-bumper is on an 8 lane highway so if you just look at
the 7 lanes I am not in, that means I pass something like a new
car every 40 feet per lane. That's 7 cars every 40 feet for 32 miles. That works out to be
982 cars every mile, or 31,424 cars. Even though the rest of the
32 miles is not bumper to bumper, I figure I pass at least
another 4000 cars. That brings the number to something like 36,
000 cars I pass every day. Statistically, half of these are driven by females, that's 18,
000. In any given group of females, 1 in 28 has PMS. That's 642.
According to Cosmopolitan, 70% describe their love life as
dissatisfying or unrewarding. That's 449. According to the
National Institute of Health, 22% of all females have seriously
considered suicide or homicide. That's 98. And 34% describe men
as their biggest problem. That's 33. According to the National Rifle Association 5% of all females
carry weapons and this number is increasing. That means that
EVERY SINGLE DAY, I drive past at least one female that has a
lousy love life, thinks men are her biggest problem, has
seriously considered suicide or homicide, has PMS, and is armed. Flip one off? I think not. --written by a very smart man
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